The Quest for the Perfect Party

Let’s face it, birthday parties are big deals — for the birthday boy or girl but especially for the parents. I speak from experience as the mother of three boys that parties are sometimes months in the making, are often stressful, expensive, out of control crazy, and often rely on same old themes and activities–fun parks, pottery studios, gymnastics or jumping castles and sleepovers. Of course, they can be memorable and fun too. With much at stake for a happy birthday child, overwhelm and chaos/tears are unfortunately not an unusual experience for some sensitive kids! Let Blair’s Herbals help out next time!

My husband and I have thrown many many kids birthday parties at our home. It has been important for us for two big reasons– first, it has made financial sense, and, second, there is an element of grounding and keeping a party in our hands and on our schedule when we have it in our yard or at the neighborhood school yard. We have learned that having lots of boys over means having a plan that includes a simple cooperative game with a ball or water balloons and generous amounts of snacks. Not always the popular option in the beginning, home based parties have a quality of their own. At the end of the day, they are appreciated because in many cases the unstructured play time has its own beautiful creative energy and is very freeing. It is more work in some respect, but it is also provides a unique experience that allows them to be outside in all weather and create their own fun. We have always insisted on inclusivity and manners. We have always looked to have unique and meaningful events. I am glad we did!

Blair’s Herbals wants to help make your next party experience a success; we offer activities that help children connect with nature, herbs and the land, and we have a ton of fun doing it!

Fun Birthday Party Options:

Our natural lip balm making birthday experience helps kids discover the beauty and healing of making their own natural lip balms. I can come to the house to assist or merely supply the lip balm making kits and instructions on how to proceed. These lip balm party kits give families a way to bring a party back into the home. The box contains everything you need to make sparkly natural lip balms. Learning a little about the herbs and the importance of knowing what you put in and on your body is one of the themes that BH’s hopes to impart with young girls who are starting to make their self care beauty purchases. Many young girls are excited to make their own lotions and potions. Designing a healthy product that parents can feel good about is essential and fun.

Dream Pillow kit parties are great for you and your child especially if your child is considering a sleep over. The BH’s dream pillow kits contain everything you need to create special herb infused sweet pillows to cuddle up with. The kit contains needles, thread, herbs, fabric to make an approximately 5×5” pillow. Unique and fun activity to quiet the girls down before bed.

Another option is making sparkly glycerin soaps. Scores of girls and boys have had fun making a practical party favor that teaches them that they can create herbal and naturally scented soaps for everyday use. You can choose from a variety of animal molds and pour the melted base into them while adding mica and herbs for a unique gift. It is easy and fun for all ages.

Spa themed parties are also popular with the older kids (admittedly mostly girls!) Make facials and scrubs from natural materials. Fresh picked apples in the fall with oats, honey, vanilla, oil, and lemon make cleansing masks that the girls can try on and then create extra for a take away favor. Other varieties can be entertained.

Find out more about how to make your next birthday party a big hit in the comfort of your own home! Know that I will support you through the whole process. Who would have known that parties could relieve stress rather than cause it!

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